(04-05-2012 06:34 PM)Chaos Wrote:
Quote:Come on, what does a 45 year old man want with a 21 year old girl other than her body?
There are so many things wrong with that phrase.
First, what's wrong with wanting a 21 year old girl just for her body? And how is it different from wanting a 35 year old woman just for her body? As if girls would never ever date a guy they just want to have sex with or what? If I just wanna have sex with her and so does she, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.
And second, it's not the age, is the experience and their maturity level. A 21 year old girl that has been living by herself since she's 16 is probably pretty interesting and mature... I've found this to be almost universally true, and in fact those are the kind of young girls I find interesting.
Yeah, that phrase sounds pretty judgmental
to me. I agree with what you said chaos.
I would like to add that I'm a 39 y-o guy and I've had young girls in their 20s hitting ON ME, it's not always the older guy who's looking to have sex with the younger girl, I've had heavy petting sessions that young girls initiated, come on! young girls get horny too and want to fuck. And some young girls have the fantasy of having sex with an older guy, depending how sexy and attractive the older guy is. Society usually sees the older guy like a pervert and the young girl like an angel, yeah right! Well, it depends of the society too, in South America is not uncommon to see couples with a big age gap but here in USA is a sin. It's easier to see gay couples holding hands in USA (I don't have anything against gay people, just in case).
I've had heavy petting sessions with young girls but no sex so far, and to be honest I don't know if it is worth it. It's way too much effort even if the young girl is attracted to you, she's scared, she sees you like way too powerful compared with the kids she interacts with, you have more knowledge, experience, etc. And young girls can look good but they are just inexperienced KIDS that like to play a lot of games and don't know what they are doing. I IMAGINE sex must be very boring with a young girl because of their lack of experience. The best sex I've had was with a very uninhibited 34 y-o woman that still looked good, pretty good actually.
Oldguy I think you said before that you have no experience with women, don't start with young girls, it's harder. You should start with women around your age, get some experience and try with younger women, girls in their early 20s are USUALLY a pain in the ass because of the many games they play and their lack of experience.
The best book I've read about older guys dating young girls is this one: http://www.amazon.com/How-Date-Young-Wom...583&sr=8-4
It's pretty good, everything he says it's true. You have to be patient because the girl is scared, I don't think it's worth it, but if you insist read the book.
You could try too with women in their early 30s that look like young girls too, that could work. Just my 2 cents.
P.S.: Just in U.S.A.