The Official Insecurity Thread

[Zac]

I'm really insecure about losing my girlfriend.

I worry about her cheating on me or secretly not liking me. I have absolutely no reason to think she would ever cheat on me or wants to leave me. She pretty much adores me.

These thoughts are rare but they still pop up and it does put fear in me sometimes.

My girlfriend is so cute (imo). She has such nice outgoing personality. I just keep being scared shes going to realize how awesome she is because she doesn't yet and then bounce. I know this is silly though. I think I'm pretty great too. Obviously though I have some hangups here.

I think I kind of understand why this happens. I have had some bad experiences in the past. I'm not sure if that's completely it but I think it's good that I'm kind of thinking through this.

It's weird though, our situation is going to change drastically soon. That kind of makes me more insecutre. That makes more sense to me. I'm going to be leaving a girl I really love and I'm not sure what I'm going to do about here yet.

It's so weird. I know she wouldn't cheat on me. I know she doesn't want to leave me and doesn't want me to leave. It seems like such an odd thing to be insecure about.