19 year old virgin, how do I deal with the mental setback?

[SeXyBaCk]

You still haven't grasped it Reesays. You need to really take a step back, re-read the whole thread, including your own words, before posting yet more emotional diarrhea. Because that is all you just posted. No one else can do this for you. It's your thing. You returned with the conclusion of people trying to ridicule you. You've FAILED at understanding what is being said. Doesn't matter, start over.

Do you think Zac is getting you? Zac, do you know what is going on/wrong in Reesays' head? Zac is trying to be a big brother and encourage you, saying you can do it, which frankly everyone agrees with.

Hmm, let's try this metaphor: Mark's the professor and he's made his informed/educated diagnosis, You're the patient, ok? It's up to you to get better. You're not terminally ill, far from it, but you have manifest problems that need addressing. There's no reason for self pity, self loathing or any of that. If you still feel terminally ill, get lost already, this is a place of healing.

Given that you are receiving an academic education I don't think it is too much to ask of you to go away and look at this whole discussion again and try and see it in a different light. That's all you need to do now, get this.