19 year old virgin, how do I deal with the mental setback?

[Mark]

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to make a long story short, none of you have walked in the experiences of life I have walked in or in my shoes for a day, so just to say "oh quit being such a f*ckin whiny b*tch" is kind of redundant, asinine, and rather malicious too

Nor have you walked in our shoes. For all you know, people on this board have been through shit you can't even fathom. Places so dark and lonely you'd never survive it. There is nothing so horrible in this world that justifies whining or the attitude that you've had here.

Everyone here is telling you more or less the same thing: that there is a direct correlation between your shitty attitude and the problems in your life. I'm not sure how many times we have to say it in different ways. Yeah, you've had problems in your life. But that's the past. What are you going to do NOW? How are you going to see things NOW? And no, no amount of childhood problems justifies having a shitty attitude. Many of us have had some horrible stuff happen to us, but no matter what we've been through we ALWAYS have a choice: we can either take responsibility for everything that happens in our life from this day forward, or we can continue to sit and complain about the bad things that happen to us and not do anything about it.

So yeah. Stop being a whiny bitch. Either make some clear and conscious choices of how you're going to change, RIGHT NOW. Or don't bother posting on the forum. This is a place for people who want to change their lives. And if you're not going to take responsibility for changing yours, then you have no place here.