19 year old virgin, how do I deal with the mental setback?

[baller08]

Say you were 19 years old and a virgin and have struggled with women for the last 5 years.

Let's say that you have an identity crisis with your race.

Also say that you view white women as women you can never get.

Now you've been working on yourself and you've been going back and forth on a forum with others, you've had arguments, you've been banned, etc. etc.

So now you find yourself at a party and on the same night you get a make out session and a hand job with a promise of "there will be a next time"...from a white girl no less. If this happened to you....what do you think you will most likely do and feel? What seems more plausible? Do you....

A) Feel awesome, excited, happy that you've made such amazing progress?
B) Excitedly come onto the forum and share your success story?
C) Feel that maybe your race isn't as much of a factor as you thought and now you have some success to work off of?
D) Write a negative post about how you didn't get to "stick it in" and completely go off the deep end when a stranger questions the validity of the events in which you told it?

See what I mean? When you've seen enough of this you can usually just have a sense that something doesn't seem right.

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Actually this is exactly what it's like when it comes to women and dating. After awhile you just kind of know. You'll know if she's lying or something actually came up. You'll just know if there's another guy she's hooked on or if she is just a little more reserved. You'll just know if she is just looking for some attention or if she's really into you. You'll just know if she's testing you or if you really hurt her feelings.

Are you going to one day be Spider-Man and have a Spidey Sense that is 100% accurate at all times? Of course not. You're not a mutant, this isn't a super power. But it is knowledge, experience, and wisdom combined and you'll be right most of the time. Right now most of you have knowledge but no experience and wisdom....but that will come.