Lovemaking: Bonding vs. fertilization

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Damn... I've just had an eye-opener here... this totally explains why all my girlfriend now sort of loathe me. Chronic acute hyperclimaxia!

I would agree that one can keep an open mind on it, let Zac finish the book and report back. Personally I view this as a case of "cars as dangerous, they kill people - but you still have to get where you're going" - orgasms are the shit. Eventually you're going to/want to have them. They're an integral part of one's quality of life, maybe for women even more so than men. As to factors that can undermine the longevity of a relationship... there are so many, I doubt a healthy sex life is one of the more threatening culprits. WC seat up is far more lethal. I can see the entertainment value in denying a highly charged woman an orgasm for short periods of time... but making a conscious effort... wow, cruel. You badass you!

As for the Porn effect thing... when speaking about science... I did visit the webpage, but I didn't see any links to a clinical study, pro- or retrospective. I assume there isn't any anatomical proof eg. biopsies from a brain of a porn consumer vs a non consumer and marking an increased number of receptors in the porn consumer. Maybe there have been some of those MRI marker studies where someones brain that is used to porn shows a stronger or weaker reaction to pornographic images than a non-consumer would? I would find out myself but my workplace (a hospital) doesn't allow the words porn in google.