Lovemaking: Bonding vs. fertilization

[Zac]

Me and my girlfriend have been practicing "karezza" because we have been reading the book Cupid's Poison Arrow: From Habit to Harmony in Sexual Relationships together out loud.

I'll admit, we aren't very far in the book but we have began to practice what it is teaching us (we skip to some of the examples now and then). It basically talks about how there are two forms of lovemaking. One is for bonding, one is for fertilization.

People grow tired of each other after a lot of lovemaking with the "intent" of fertilizing (orgasms).

I'm not going to claim to know everything the book is teaching as I'm just reading it. I wanted to share it here.

I've never been more horny in my life. I want to run through a wall. This stuff mixed with no porn trying as hard as I can not to masturbate ever and saving myself for actual sex is driving me insane. I think in a good way though.

I'll keep you guys updated. Just wanted to see if anyone else had anything to say or knew anything about these practices.