(03-14-2012 12:56 AM)Reesays Wrote: -facepalm-
the amount of hatred Indians have for their own skin and trying to pass for other things is just unreal
Look guy, never in a million years will you as a Bengali or any type of Indian be able to pass for a Southern European. I heard from my family that they are Northern Indian, mom is really light skinned but still, facial features and other things make it obvious.
Mediterranean men are loved by women due to media, that is it. Also a lot of them put efforts into their looks, lift weights, and take care of themselves.
Same with Black and Latino guys. Quit trying to be like them and be one of those South Asians that puts South Asian guys on the map alright.
You are making it seem like the second a girl hears you are Brown she is going to run the other way as opposed to you being Italian. Makin a lot of us insecure brah!
So how do you know I am not mixed or something else? Do I even know you? You are displaying the typical Indian pigeonholing mentality of assuming things about someone in an short idiotic way, thinking that one single thing or person is responsible for everything yet meanwhile you post entire fucking threads about your own insecurities about not getting white girls, the supposed holy grail of women (according to you not me). Then you whine and try to piss all over everyone trying to make them sympathize with your plight as a stereotypical Indian and now you are lecturing me about this and that just so you can actually feel good about yourself and feel like you are doing something as a response to your failures and bitter reality. I am not one of those idiotic Indians that puts skin bleaching creams on to be white, that could be you but not me, since I don't want to be really a "white person" if you actually read what I wrote. Piss off with the Indian subcontinental compatriot mentality crap seriously.
BTW are you not supposed to be approaching and figuring out what works for you? Stop spending time on the forums and walk the walk not say shit you don't even do yourself. Nowhere did I ever mention that I wanted to surgically or physically alter my appearance so that my skin is pale white, I just wanted to know the diet+lifestyles+regimens those people from that region utilize to look the way they are.
This might sound pretentious, but I didn't have too many problems getting girls attracted to me in the past, I have had the stereotypical hot cheerleader in highschool display attraction toward me when I was in high school, I've had some older beautiful modelesque women display attraction toward me a couple of times before, and all sorts of girls/women. I've had people tell ever since I was young that I was good-looking, so I know for sure that I am and can be a very good looking guy (plus I'm almost 6.4 which solves the height issue). I am not exaggerating, or bullshitting about this I'm being honest here. I created the other thread not because I couldn't get girls but because I am facing an identity dilemma as I'm trying to figure out a look for myself that will help with my results and give me a unique look.
Well you haven't really seen Middle Eastern people or people from the Levant that well, otherwise you would know that there are also white Egyptians and everything that I just wrote is pretty much accurate.
Indians put skin bleaching cream not because they actually hate their skin, but because they don't want to be associated with Indians and Indian culture, which lets be honest here, is one of the most shittiest, backwards, primitive, ugliest, underdeveloped cultures in the world. One needs to simply read blog posts about them to see where this is coming at. This same aspect of Indian culture has already TBH, wrecked the reputation and standing of "South Asians" on the map; based on what everyone tells me about this phenomenon.
And why this obsession with white women Reesy's? Or with "fair skinned" girls? I have heard all sorts of anecdotes of there being a abundance of hot sexy black women in Texas and in the south. Indeed one needs to simply just look at an NFL cheerleading team to see what fit, finely shaped, attractive and hot mulatto or black girls look like when they go under those characteristics. But your own words betray you, you also showed your lack of awareness or intelligence when you described Bengal as really being part of "India" when it really isn't and there are regions there that are heavily mixed to the point where some of those people look completely & utterly different from the typical Indian (almost Asian). Once again you demonstrate the typical idiotic Indian narrow-minded pigeonholing mentality.
Also according to everyone's logic in this forum, if I were to enjoy, know quite a bit of and openly display a liking & fondness of European classical music, and learn it, it must mean I have a white inferiority complex and self-hatred for myself and about my culture. Give me a break people