Make Love not Porn

[FirstAidKit]

I've not got speakers and can't watch the video - but weighing in from a female perspective...

There's always been quite a lot of pressure to be 'good in bed'. And even when you're still learning about your own body and what you like, you have this idea of what 'good in bed' looks like and I've sometimes tried to emulate that, without paying enough attention to what I want and need out of that sexual experience. I do actually like hard and fast sex a lot of the time but it took me quite a while to really be able to feel secure enough to really slow it down and draw it out.