Improving sex life

[bwong]

So I just recently had this girl break it off with me completely because she wasn't happy with me when we had sex. I had limp dick for whatever reason (even though this girl is beautiful and super attractive). We did end up having sex but she didn't enjoy it at all. Before sex, we had a great connection and rapport. We'd be pretty physical in terms of touching and making out. Eventually I got her to tell me what was wrong (We couldn't turn each other on, she didn't like the way I was touching her, cumming to quickly, etc.) The whole experience irked her and she wanted nothing to do with me physically and said let's be friends. I asked what she wanted and she said "a nice dating and a good fuck" which was pretty much all she was looking for. At first I was distraught, as if this was a huge blow to my confidence. Now I've brushed it off and determined to improve myself in bed.

However, I'm stuck with the question in how I become a better lover in bed? I'm reading the sexgodmethod by Daniel Rose (which apparently has good reviews from everyone) and learning a lot, but of course you can only learn so much by reading. Now what is the best way to actually practice and improve at having better sex with women? Should I try to have sex with as many women as possible (in a genuine way I mean, not just going out and picking up random drunk chicks) or focus on getting a girlfriend and just having sex with one girl? I feel like I have confidence in all other areas of my life to attract women, but I don't want to scare women away with my inability to perform in bed. I've only been in one serious relationship where we had a lot of sex which sometimes was good and other times off. Besides that I haven't had too much experience in sex with other women.

Some feedback in improving my sex life would be great because I want to make sure that I'm well rounded to keep women happy with me. Obviously if I'm going to have sex with a woman I want her to have pleasure as well.