Daygame a Big Lie

[Tim]

Christian Wrote:Gosh, this PU-language sounds weird!

Haha yep, and you mainly realise that when you talk to people with no PUA background. I don't even say daygame now. The only word I'm comfortable using is 'approach', because I know my friends wouldn't look at me confusedly if I used it.

And yeah, meeting women during the day isn't bullshit as a whole Freitlich, maybe it just doesn't work for you. Being socially aware and well adjusted is definitely the problem for most guys during the day. With a huge sample number eventually you're going to meet a woman who you're very compatible with, and then you just have to let your personality speak for itself. If that isn't happening then it's most likely due to an inability to communicate your personality, either because of anxiety, or because you're a bit socially unadjusted. Best way to fix the anxiety is with something like Mark's program. Best way to fix social awareness is to meet a lot of people, preferably those who are quite a different type from those already in your social circle, and by traveling away from your home city or country, and being observant. Then when you go look at your own friends and yourself again, you have a wider perspective to understand yourself with.