Asian PUAs into Blondes, hmm. I don't think it has to do with them being attracted to them more, just the bullying and chip on their shoulder. Asian guys (including Indians) get told daily that no White woman would date them. In a way, to me it is like White men SUBCONSCIOUSLY want all guys to screw their women in a way, even the racist ones you see on Bodybuilding.com.
Personally, beauty wise, an Indian girl with a lighter complexion will be considered more attractive to me than a White Blonde woman. Thing is, even though I have ran into some decent Indian women, I have a huge disdain for the limiting culture. On top of that, there are Indian girls down here who flash their White boyfriends like trophies while at the same time ridiculing Indian men and talking crap about them. Women in my family regularly fantasize about how beautiful Italian, Turkish, Black, and Black-White mixed guys are and how Indian men in general cannot compare.
This just makes me say "well what the heck then".
I have a korean friend that lives in Los Angeles now, was here for high school. Bullied by rich White kids, race jokes, would tell him he could never get a White girl and how they could easily get a high quality Asian woman. Now he only dates White women, mainly because so many Asian women he says turn their back on their own men here in the US. Can't blame him.
(03-14-2012 01:34 AM)trader4life Wrote: I know man, my ex wife is blonde, and while still relatively attractive, can't hold a candle to a even semi-hot dark haired woman in my book (just my preference though). Having said that, I have an ex-GF from last year that I still regularly hang out with/have sex with (FWB/NSA setup) who is a "fake boob, bleach blonde" but really cool and the sex is pretty incredible, so I am still attracted to her.
Also, met a blonde the other day while shopping who is quite a bit younger than me and attractive, but was also really playful and fun, so I got her number. I guess the point is, it is not a deal breaker for me, but given my choice blondes are just not my favorite. Oh, BTW, I do not find my "success rate" with either or to be skewed in one direction. I attribute that solely to the fact that I'm 6'4" though - since height it the only thing that matters (just kidding Mark...ha).
I think this can be looked at two ways and I do not think it is different for most girls. What I mean is while I am way more physically attracted to a brunette from a sheer physical aspect, if it came down to one that was a "9" looks wise in my book, but a bitch or totally boring and a blonde that was a "7" in my book, but WAAAAY more interesting and fun, I would choose the blonde every time....okay, maybe not for just sex but you get the point.
It's no different for most women unless they are totally superficial and who wants them anyway? Most girls worth a shit will pick a guy that is "non-white" but relaxed, socially adjusted and cool to be around (read as: doesn't creep her out) over some white guy that is a cooze bag, even if he is good looking, tall, blah, blah, blah. I think that is the whole point of this ungodly long thread.
Women are just differe than men in my opinion in that regard. Men are just less likely to discriminate based on race and such, women are far more likely.
You know there is something wrong with an area when Overweight White guys with bad teeth and such are doing better with women than fit and cut Black guys.
Like literally, in my town, White guys have their pickings, they have a monopoly on beautiful women. You see White men with beautiful Asian, White, and mixed race wives and no one gives a damn. See a Black guy with an average looking White woman (rare here), it is like spotting big foot, a lot of the older generation and such will make their voices heard.
I actually quit going out for a while because when I was at the mall picking up, these 3 rednecks kept following me around. One openly said "why not go back to the middle east for a towelheaded wife and leave our women alone achmed". They were getting mad for sure and no one really did anything about it.
I decided to leave but a few followed me around. Thing is I decided to blend into a crowd and walk more towards the African Americans and Latinos in the mall and eventually they stopped.[/b]