RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
I know man, my ex wife is blonde, and while still relatively attractive, can't hold a candle to a even semi-hot dark haired woman in my book (just my preference though). Having said that, I have an ex-GF from last year that I still regularly hang out with/have sex with (FWB/NSA setup) who is a "fake boob, bleach blonde" but really cool and the sex is pretty incredible, so I am still attracted to her.
Also, met a blonde the other day while shopping who is quite a bit younger than me and attractive, but was also really playful and fun, so I got her number. I guess the point is, it is not a deal breaker for me, but given my choice blondes are just not my favorite. Oh, BTW, I do not find my "success rate" with either or to be skewed in one direction. I attribute that solely to the fact that I'm 6'4" though - since height it the only thing that matters (just kidding Mark...ha).
I think this can be looked at two ways and I do not think it is different for most girls. What I mean is while I am way more physically attracted to a brunette from a sheer physical aspect, if it came down to one that was a "9" looks wise in my book, but a bitch or totally boring and a blonde that was a "7" in my book, but WAAAAY more interesting and fun, I would choose the blonde every time....okay, maybe not for just sex but you get the point.
It's no different for most women unless they are totally superficial and who wants them anyway? Most girls worth a shit will pick a guy that is "non-white" but relaxed, socially adjusted and cool to be around (read as: doesn't creep her out) over some white guy that is a cooze bag, even if he is good looking, tall, blah, blah, blah. I think that is the whole point of this ungodly long thread.
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