RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
Reesays, haven't you noticed man? You're the only person here constantly talking about race. This isn't about white girls being racist, you're the racist attributing certain characteristics to a skin tone. You need to accept this about yourself, and then let go of it.
My sister is married to an indian bloke, and she's blonde and hot (it's my sister after all). What's more, I've lived in Europe most of my life, there's no such things as brown dudes in my reckoning. I've not come across people considering Indians to have a different skin colour, they're just more tanned than us caucasians. Frankly, a lot of this is in your head. And you have to watch what you say to women...that flowery stuff in one of your first posts, that's downright creepy. Now, what are you trying to achive? Get over axiety talking to strangers? Not really right? Making friends, meeting people. Okay, how about you slow down and spend more time talking to one individual than trying to get 10 phone numbers over the course of an hour. Women realise what you're doing right away, so slow down.
You moved from girl to girl, you should have asked one of those which were receptive to just go and grab a coffee close by. It's as simple as that. If the girl who was making fun of you bumps into you again, you should say she needs to come on a date with you and have lots of fun, if she says no, politely request her not speak to or approach you anymore.
Finally not sure what you mean by bad hygiene. Not sure I want to know in detail. If you mean girls who aren't making the best of what they could with what is given to them by nature ...as in clothing looks make up, that can be easily changed. Girls go all out if you indicate you want them to look better to earn your attention.
Finally, I think you need to join some clubs and activities on campus. Go to the blackboard, check out what their is, even if it doesn't interest you that much or you're not that excited about it. Sometimes they have get to know the city tour, or a tour of the local art museum or whatever, just get on that stuff, you'll instantly expand your social cycle.
Finally negative attitude and lack of confidence. You're oozing both. You're constantly looking for rational excuses. Not everyone in this world is going to love us. It's just part of life. it's really an experience one should make as an early teenager or even before, when you position yourself amongst other kids and have first arguments/fights. It's just part of life.
Confidence is harder to come by. But you're already having success. Some girls are more than willing to talk to you. They're not (all) man eaters. At least a basic level of confidence will come to you as you go.
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