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Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
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Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
Yeah, I think there are things that will hold you back anywhere. Some places are definitely better than others, but all have issues. If the area you are in is making progress impossible, then just focus on other areas of your life until you can transfer and then try to make more progress with women. Some people make it until their mid-20s or later without ever getting much of anywhere with girls. My good friend just had his first girlfriend at 22, so it's not the end of the world.

Regarding your question of being able to attract people who wouldn't otherwise be attractive, I would say that's not realistic. I have a few female friends who have hard and fast rules about various attributes of men: height, age, etc. I am not saying that nobody who doesn't meet them won't succeed, but for instance one of them is pretty tall and she does not date men shorter than her. A short guy MAY be able to attract her, but it would be much harder if not impossible in my opinion. Another is only into older men, as in more than 10 years older than her. I see guys around my age approaching her all the time, but she doesn't give them the time of day. I know it sucks, but there are definitely some girls out there who will flat out reject you based upon the color of your skin. There are also some who may actually have a preference for you based upon that same reason. Just stick it out for now. Good luck with the transfer, and once you are done with school moving to a big city like NYC you will probably have easier time than in bible belt.
03-02-2012 03:42 AM
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Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log) - CHB2 - 03-02-2012 03:42 AM

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