Is feeling Jealous being Needy?

[Drewid]

Don't know if this will be helpful, but one of my friends in the Poly community told me to read this when I was talking to her about her lifestyle and how she dealt with jealousy:
http://planetwaves.net/jealousy.html

It's a little touchy-feeley, but I think the thoughts about what it means to think you can "own" someone else's sexuality are at least worth running through your gray matter.

I also know a number of guys who simply aren't jealous. One friend of mine couldn't care less if the girl he's sleeping with has a boyfriend and he's just on the side. He doesn't care if she's all he's getting, even if she's getting it from someone else.