Two questions

[TruthSeeker]

1. What is better mindset, to reframe negative thoughts about girl's reactions into positive ones (e.g. if a girl gives some negative reaction to interpret it as "she's just teasing me because she likes me" or when she rejects you "we aren't right for each other", "she probably had a boyfriend, good thing she didn't waste my time" etc.) OR to take responsibility for every rejection or resistance (e.g. "She rejected me because I did something wrong, next time I'll try to do better" etc.)? Hope you understand what i mean. Both ways of thinking have pros and cons.

2. Has anyone actually tried out 60 years of challenge's stuff? What are your thoughts about it, did you have success?