Attraction Male and Neediness

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Guyintheback Wrote:Didn't Mark just recently write that there are two mindsets?

One, treating the women as objects, which I would relate to "just wanna fuck her", seeing her as a piece of meat basically

The other: Opening her with curiosity and the interest to get to know her.

I think that is the difference.


About the girlfriend - neediness question: I think Brian is spot on. It's not needy to want a girlfriend, but it is needy to look for a girlfriend just to get validation and companionship. If you are lonely and just finally want to have someone who is nice and close to you, anyone, no matter what she looks like, what her character is like, what her interests are: That is needy.

How do I know? Been there, done that.

No, I want a girlfriend, that is attractive and fit to me. Is this really needy and unattractive? But Mark wrote Desire for a women create attraktion?