Attraction Male and Neediness

[Matty]

I don't really see anything wrong with looking for a girlfriend. We can mentally masturbate and analyze "neediness" six ways to sunday, but the fact is that as long as you aren't willing to settle with just anyone, there's nothing needy about being at the point in your life where you want a relationship. Basic human need. There seems to be an obsession and paranoia around here about "am I being needy". I think such an obsession is, ironically, needy. Go after whatever you want.