The Official Lifestyle Goals 2012 Thread

[Jon]

FirstAidKit Wrote:2) Get better at orgasms
Ah, this one has been pissing me off for years. It took me a really stupidly long time to work out how to make myself come - I was like 19? And that was with a vibrator and reading material. No one else has done it yet, though I've not had a regular practice partner for a while. So for the next couple of years I could do it with that (and time) and about 8 months ago working on either using one or the other. And for the past month or so - just fingers and nothing else, spurred into action by the porn thread. Action plan here: Keep wanking, I guess. Who has to practice wanking? I'm weird. But it's working well, it's getting much easier and quicker.

Not weird. Pretty common issue among women. Also, are these guys going down on you, and are they GOOD at going down on you? IME this is the most likely way to get a girl off.

Other things to try - let the guy watch you have an orgasm with your fingers. That will give him a better idea. Also, let the guy use the vibrator on you.