Trust Issues

[Halo Effect]

Ultimately, it's your decision. Your situation may be very different from mine. What can help is to ask yourself these questions:
In general, does she make you feel happier, or less happy in your life?
Does she make you feel like a MAN or like less of a man?
Does she inspire confidence or make you doubt yourself?
Can you be yourself around her, or do you watch what you say around her?

But even if she makes you feel good, you won't be able to change her. So if you desire that strong connection with a girl (that you sometimes get a glimpse of with this girl) you won't ever get it with her, in all likelihood.

In my situation, even though the girl elicited strong feelings in me and we had many things in common, I often felt a nagging sense of emptiness in my chest around her (I think because I subconsciously knew that the connection wasn't right) and when she left I was full of doubt and worry. I noticed that I started seeking her approval almost unconsciously. She made me less confident about myself, and a lot unhappier.

Many men will advise you to simply avoid women with commitment issues and emotional baggage. I chose to ignore that advice and find out for myself. I learned that it's best to simply avoid women with commitment issues and emotional baggage.