Mark Wrote:I think much of it depends on your age. Your experience Leo, at 39, is going to be quite different than mine or Halo's, in our mid-20's. With one exception, I have had nothing but great experiences with women in their 30's. One of the most attractive women I know (all-around, looks, brains, personality, sex) is 34. With all of them, it's been nothing but lots of great, fun sex, engaging conversations, no head games and no pressure for things to get too serious too quickly.
Yeah, I've enxperienced the advantages that you are talking about but with me they want to get serious ASAP, they even talk about marriage and kids on the first date .
Maybe they see you more like a source of fun, this guy is too young to be interested in marriage so let's gonna have sex with him and nothing else. I think that's why they interrogate me so quickly, they see me like a potential husband and want to know if I want to get married too. Ugggh!!
Quote:My experience with the 18-24 year old crowd has also only gotten better the older I've gotten. I used to find them very unreliable, but now I'm able to communicate pretty directly with most of them. Again, age may also be a factor. A 20 year old girl is probably less likely to be comfortable or trust a 40-year old than she is a 26 year old, therefore she'll probably behave in more erratic ways and be hot/cold.
That's exactly what happens with me, except when they are drunk, they show they real intentions and I can feel them up easily and kiss them, but when they are sober they are cold again. It requieres a lot of effort and a lot of comfort, it takes a lot of time, but definitely they make me feel a lot more masculine. I date other women while I hit on young girls because I know it's gonna take a long time depending on how mature and experienced they are.
Quote:Oh, rolando's right, there's nothing wrong with them wanting their dreamboat husband. We all have a right to dream about what we want. Just like you have a right to get absolutely turned off when they start interrogating you. Haha...
Of course they have the right to dream about what they want but I think those dreams are very unrealistic. They just want the perfect man when they are not so perfect. You know what? They are looking for a guy with the 3 fundamentals in order, and that's fucking hard to find. IMO they have to have something to offer too, even though I think they act in a way they think that I'm like the average guy: I have not options, and that's not true
. We should have a 3 fundamentals for women, what are we looking for in a woman that is satisfactory for us: Hot, smart and sexy? Sounds good to me