sledgehammer Wrote:An ugly guy who is funny might aswell be a sexy guy, based on his behaviour. Aswell as a good looking guy that is funny can be an entertainer monkey without sexual presence at all.
sledgehammer Wrote:Completely agree. Me myself is very muscular due to several years of weight training, Im good looking (Yes, in the classical sense as well developed jaw, eyebrows and good symmetry), I have dark eyes and dark hair, very easy to getting that sexy tan look. Yet Ive struggled like a mother fucker all my life cause of social insecurities and sexual anxiety, too many times when Ive "had it going" with a girl and ALMOST got it, some other douchebag short ugly asshole guy have stole her from me.
While I would say looks do make a difference, like any other shit like money or whatever, it aint even NEARLY as important as guys make it. Average looking dude who is very confident and assertive will KILL any good looking guy who is even half-insecure anyday.
Ive read a shit ton of seduction bullshit litterature but whats 100% legit in my experience is that girls are turned on primarly by DOMINANCE and all the shit that comes with it, being none needy, having your own shit going on, doing what you want when you want without looking for validation, having that "masculine presence". THATS whats turning women on, physical looks have a very minimal impact on the majority of chicks.
Funny thing is that the more experience I get, the more I start to realise this is true. Just some years ago I was absolutely convinced it was 100% looks and money, then after seduction I was like "well maybe its not everything but its very important!", now its like "nah, doesnt fucking matter, yeah sure you might have some advantage as a good looking guy but thats about it, nothing important".
true but face it, if you're going to sort out you're self esteem issues, you will get more play due to your looks. Plus the mere fact that some women will gladly trade up with you after hooking up with some other guy. Off course if you're a headcase or a good looking guy with the personality of a sociopath, then off course it's not going to matter. Looks provide you with an amazing leverage effect, if you have the tools to use them wisely. I'll leave it at that.
What botters me is that his tone is very condescending. While he mentiones some positives, his review does leave you with a negative impression. Are you planning on writing a response back Mark in order to justify a few things? He left out a lot of of the positives from you're book, such as the 3 fundamentals.