No More Mr. Nice Guy and self improvement

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SeXyBaCk, Chaos, thanks, I will try to find more balance, while staying focused on important things, like being healthy and well groomed.

baller08, I didn't specified anywhere here what I am looking for in a girl. I merely pointed out, that I traded things that gave me satisfaction and pleasure for things, that help me get laid. It's hard to be a man of integrity, unless you can clearly and honestly tell anyone, that you work out or dress well to have sex. I could run or play soccer and stay scrawny, yet healthy and don't get benefit of looking better. But if someone is passionate about running, should he try to get muscled silhouette instead?

What I infer from your post, is that if I want the girl to be attractive, fit and look good, I shall offer the same thing. Sounds fair. This is something I can live with.