What Actually IS Game?

[playmaker001]

Direct or situational, i don't bother with opinion openers really. I think you're focusing on the wrong things though. Once you get better at the game, you'll develop certain "instincts" and learn which girls are eye fucking you, horny, think you're cute, are receptive, etc. before even having to talk to them (or only having to chat with them for a little). It's really quite comforting because when I first started out, I always used to worry about what I was going to say. Now I use the 70% non-verbal part of human communication to my advantage and it's like me and the girl's little secret. I've said some pretty dumb things to girls before, but most of the time if they're into you, it's really HARD to fuck it up with them. Until you get to that non-verbal place with women, you'll remain in the dark when it comes to game. Now it's to the point where I'll have interactions with a girl where the first thing to come out of my mouth is "so romantic" to her. Even if it's something simple like "you have pretty eyes". Your words become more important to her if you speak less until after you've slept with her (at least in my case).