What Actually IS Game?

[SeXyBaCk]

Woah, this 10 scale thing... is still going strong huh? It'll never go away I suppose. There are just too many creepy guys out there staring at women just for a little too long. Over-analysing a womans physical appearance is harmful to your game in my view. You're either going to put her on a pedestal right from the off or you're clogging up your brain trying too hard to get with her or worrying about your chances or if she's hot enough for you. It's just going to confuse or distract you. For me there are exactly two categories: I am attracted to her or I'm not attracted to her PHYSICALLY. If you can't figure that out ... ask yourself ... would you enjoy standing really close to this person, or do you want to smell them? Yes/no? Simples. It's all you need to know before smiling and making eye contact.

This whole 1-10 scaling is the mentality of lanky, pimply teenagers hanging around town staring at older fully developed girls and cooeing under their breath. Yeah, we all did that ("she's an 8, 8 camels!"). Masculine? Not so. I'll leave that to awkward grown up men who spend too much time looking/reading field reports (don't ask me which is sadder) and not enough time living.

Beyond all that, physical attractiveness only really rules supreme in the first 2 minutes of meeting someone. I've come across a few very physically attractive women, who upon opening their mouth and displaying an entire lack of humor became unattractive right away. Maybe they blew me out good too, amounts much to the same. Equally I've talked to women with maybe not the best skin, figure or style and they turn out to be very sexy indeed. Women can also actually become hotter when you make them happy, give them a reason to doll up/encourage them. Sexiness/sex appeal are not the same as good looks. They feed off each other but they're not one and the same thing. Sex appeal is an aura, a state of mind, attitude, lifestyle, presence (and more)... it can't really be reproduced on camera/film/a mirror. If you feel it does, you're too influenced by gloosy media/photoshop/porn.