Getting help from others is a sign of weakness

[Chaos]

In addition to everything everyone said; when you ask for help ask a GUY... Don't ask the girls, don't go with your problems to the girls ... just avoid it at all costs. It's counter intuitive and you'll want to talk about it with that "really kind girl" but please avoid it...

Disclaimer: In reality you can, but it's to easy to slip to telling your problems to the girl (or girls) you like and then playing the "nice guy" game once again while being friend zoned at the same time...