Confusion girls (First receptive, then not)

[FirstAidKit]

(04-14-2012 07:11 AM)Matt II Wrote:  @ FirstAidKit: Would you agree though that it is very hard for the male to distinguish between sexual interest and platonic interest? Basically the only thing one can do from a male perspective is polarize and wait for her reaction. This ALWAYS entails the risk of rejection and the women feeling a bit overwhelmed.

I think it differs from girl to girl - I guess I'm quite hard because I pretty much need that platonic interest as well as sexual interest (Can't fuck anyone I can't talk to, Well, I can, but it doesn't do a lot for me, so I don't.). Some people are going to have different criteria. Keep an eye out for her touching you is probably the easiest way to spot it. It it happens a lot, you're probably in there...

But basically, no. There is no rejection free way to hit on someone... but in my opinion, you can't 'lose her' at this point, because you never had her, you just punctured the illusion of having her.