How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

[baller08]

Goddamn, you guys seriously have a reading comprehension problem. Who is going to disagree with this?

Quote: In your INITIAL interaction, you'll have Yes girls, maybe girls and no girls. The whole idea of the approach is to pull the yes girls and convert the maybe girls into yes girls. Let me repeat myself, you convert maybe girls into yes girls DURING the initial approach.

Even the dumbest guy on here isn't going to disagree with that! What I'm saying is that IF you only had a few minutes and only got a chance to build some attraction and curiousity that understanding how to continue some of that conversation with text or phone banter is helpful before you make plans with her.

That's not game or "mental masturbation" that's simply continuing the damn conversation....it's FUN...it's fun for her and should be fun for you! If you had a little longer and developed a better connection than subsequent texting and phone calls are less necessary.

No one is advocating to think about one girl for days or weeks on end. I've never seen Mace say that. When he no longer does college day time pick ups and he starts to go to clubs or lounges, he'll need this text stuff less because he'll have more time to actually talk to the girl. But meanwhile he's still getting experience now. There's nothing wrong with that!

No one is telling these recovering nice guys to be shit on the initial interaction and somehow texting something magical is going to change her mind. Why do you guys always go to these extremes? There's a tool for everything and it's just about using it appropriately.

Nobody is wrong here, it's just about where each guy is in his development and abilities.