How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

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Quote:2) the reason beginners don't get numbers is because they don't ask for them. Women will almost always give out the number if asked.

You're not new to the forum right? I think there's about 80% of the guys on this forum that will say otherwise.

The whole "not showing interest" thing you're talking about is only applicable when guys get into the friend zone because they're too scared or don't know how to escalate. That's a different topic. There is zero chance that any woman doesn't know a man is interested if you cold approach her and ask for her number! I can't believe I'm even having to type that out. Are we all 15 years old again?

Even in your friend's case, if she showed up with an engagement ring on then she's either not very much into her fiance, would have cheated on him with your friend, or is just wanting the attention.....no way in hell does a woman give a guy her phone number, agreed to meet him for a date, and go "Oh my...he wanted to have sex with me? Why...I had no idea!" As you said she probably just ignored that fact, but she still knows he is interested. Every girl that Mace approaches knows he is interested, so I'm not sure why you said he is getting certain flakes because he is not showing interest up front.

Come on, Jon....I'm not going to get into all the reasons why women from the age of 13 already starts to see when guys are interested. This is so elementary its not even worth discussing.