How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

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Quote:What's bad is I don't really want to go on dates with girls that have to be convinced to go on a date with me. I'd rather just go find another woman who's excited to see me.

But perhaps that's a privileged position.

It is and that's a position that has to be earned. You earn it by having dates and learning from your mistakes. I don't see banter on text as convincing a girl, I just see it as an extension of the initial conversation. Eventually, if a guy gets enough women, he'll learn how to make the initial interaction better and subsequent secondary communication becomes less necessary other than logistics for the 1st date.

What I have an issue with here is the whole "maybe" bullshit and the "who knows?" excuse. This doesn't help the Old Guys, Creatine Dreams, Juggernauts and all the newer guys that come on here. In their case it isn't that the girl got kidnapped by aliens, it's because there are reasons in their initial AND subsequent communications that needs improving. Saying "maybe she got eaten by a tiger, move onto the next" doesn't help them learn anything. All they're going to do is repeat the same mistake on the next girl.

They SHOULD move onto the next, but they should also own that they could have done better and learn from it.