How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

[baller08]

I disagree, Jon. There is zero chance a girl doesn't know a guy is interested in her if he's talking to her out of the blue. Hell, most of the time a girl doesn't respond because the guy is already so interested....that's why most of the beginners can't even get a phone number when they start out.

I'm not sure why some of you guys here are doing the "maybe she got sick", "maybe she lost her phone" type of excuses. Obviously the 99% probability here is that she wasn't interested. Chaos got it right when he said that she didn't bite on any of his playful baits and Mace asked her out anyway so of course she's just going to stop responding.

Mace isn't disagreeing that having a better initial interaction is the best way to go. But in those cases that he doesn't or couldn't then texting banter and a phone call will bridge that gap. What's so wrong about that? That's real world and practical. It's just another medium of communication. Why is this such a big fucking deal?

The whole "maybe" routine that playmaker came up with is silly at best. Mace is saying there is always something you could do better; it doesn't mean you'll get every girl but a lot of guys lose a lot of women too because they don't learn from their mistakes.

Ideally make your initial interaction more attractive and memorable. However, if you aren't able to, having a few good banter on text or a phone call can help promote more attraction and comfort and bridge what you didn't have in the initial meeting.

What's so wrong about that?