How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

[Mace]

This player recommends calling the next day instead of texting + seeding a date - and has the stats to back it up. I used to think this strategy was too pushy but I think it's best - escalating from the momentum off the initial interaction is key.

http://www.seductionpath.com/posts/should-i-call-her


Test conditions

Now, I’m back with my research for the current year, to be more specific: 01.01.2011 -> 30.04.2011.

Here I’m going to concentrate on another question: What’s the perfect algorithm for calling them.

Here are the conditions of the test:

only number closes, no online game
I usually got day game numbers in 5 minutes or less using direct game (=> lack of comfort)
80-90% of my closes are from day game so I’ll disregard the rest

My results:

After ~80 number closes I had 10 new lays (*) in 4 months. (One in eight girls I number closed was a lay)

* one was a social circle lay and another one was a previously sarged girl I number closed a second time

When you should give up calling:

after you called her 5 total times without an answer (2 times the first day, 2 times 3 days after, etc)
after 3 consecutive flakes (even though I could get her on the phone easily)
on 3 successions or 2 weeks of comfort calls and flakes or comfort calls and excuses when I invite her out
^^^ the last one can be translated to a mathematical formula: (3*successions || 2*weeks)(comfort_calls && flakes || comfort_calls && excuses)

Techniques that succeeded:

1st place: Day 1: comfort call + seeding a date, Day 2: fclose
2nd place: Day 1: comfort call, Day 2++ (a few days of no contact) and no later than Day 7: comfort call + fclose
3rd place: Day 1: meet directly, Day 2: fclose
* Day 0 => the day I’ve met her, Day 1 => the day after

What I learned from my experience:

delete girls that flake on you 3 times (even though they keep the phone convo)
delete girls that you couldn’t meet with in 2 weeks
delete girls that don’t answer after 5 total calls (all, of course, spread over 1 week)
dirty fuck the rest

On day game approaches that last under 15 minutes definitely call them the next day! You work with momentum and they remember you, reactivate the emotions they felt, etc. You're losing their interest on each day that passes.