How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

[Halo Effect]

Baller,

I didn't mean to derail the discussion by referring to PUA repeatedly. I was using the term to refer to Mace's views. Mace talked about things like tactics and value in his posts. That's what I was arguing against.

I agree with you that we have to learn, or unlearn, many things, and that we have to walk before we can run. We probably disagree about HOW one has to go about learning these things, though.

A man can begin expressing his sexuality, simply by expressing his sexuality. He could begin by doing it in the easiest way he can think of, and then going further as his comfort zone grows. Same with assertiveness and vulnerability. He can tackle these things directly, and no techniques would be required. No viewpoint other than the one I described is necessary. (I'm not saying tackling these things directly would be easy though. Far from it.)