How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

[baller08]

Take PUA references out of it, Halo. Everytime someone injects that term we lose perspective and the point. I never once mentioned PUA anything because learning some skills and understand women isn't a PUA thing...it's an un-brain washing of men thing. Again, what you're saying is true, but guys need food and shelter first before they care about or can even begin to have the luxury of understanding things like morality and respect for others (Using the Maslow example).

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(04-13-2012 09:42 PM)Mace Wrote:  Mark, what is your view of this approach. Just curious.

http://tindeck.com/listen/vwsr

(Day game cold approach on campus, college girl)

This really has nothing to do with the topic at hand and I don't want to derail it....but....can I just say that this whole filming and recording interactions with women is just plain wrong and creepy?

It's stupid and I'm certain borderline illegal somewhere.

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(04-13-2012 09:08 PM)Halo Effect Wrote:  The way I see it now, staying with the analogy.

Mark says: It's going to be fucking hard, you're going to have to learn a lot and go through periods of pain, but YOU HAVE TO WALK.

PUA says: You gotta walk on your hands, bro.

No one is having a PUA debate except you. So this example is irrelevent.

What I'm saying is guys who don't have your background or Sexyback's background have a lot more things to UNLEARN. And what you're talking about "overcoming shame", "express your sexuality", "be vulnerable".....that's like me telling you, "Hey just JUMP higher". You can't unless you work on the steps to train your muscles to allow you to jump higher!

With anything, be it sports, playing an instrument...you have to start with techniques and steps. When you play the guitar, you start off by looking at your fingers because you don't know what you're doing. As a magician when I first learned how to do certain sleight of hand, I looked at my hands...it's a bad habit that every magician does because we're unsure and we haven't developed the muscle memory yet.

Then with practice we start to be able to look natural and look at our audience while doing the sleights perfectly.

No one's talking about PUA stuff here. What I'm talking about is common sense and the way any person will learn something new.