How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

[baller08]

HaloEffect - I don't disagree with the second way of having a conversation. But come on...lots of guy can have shared interest, passions, traits and so forth with girls and get no sexual interest from the girl...it's called The Friend Zone.

Unless you're a total recluse you're going to have things in common with women but a lot of guys end up in The Friend Zone because they don't know how to do all the other things. Those are the situations where the guy comes on here and says, "Man we had good conversation, she seemed really interested....but then when I asked her out she flaked/said she had a boyfriend/disappeared. This happens to me all the time!".

Look at this post from FirstAidKit: http://postmasculine.com/forum/Thread-Co...85#pid7185

See how she can have the kind of conversation you just suggested but felt no attraction for the guy? Because it's much more than what you are suggesting and if you're doing well with women, you yourself are sub-communicating all the things that you are saying is not necessary...that whole unconscious competence thing I talked about above.