How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

[Chaos]

I think this might be One of this situations where you auto fulfill your prophecy.

Mark have the mindset that pickiing up girls (day or night) is "easy" and that the girl will completely fancy him after those 10 minutes of interaction. As a result, a lot of times she does.

You have the mindset that the girl is predisposed to not like you, that any little mistake you do will break the deal and, as a result, that's exactly what happens.

It's interesting to note that two person can have exactly the same results (the same number of dates and lays) but having two different mindsets can make them perceive those results as completely different.

I loved this article and I think it summarizes what mark is trying to say.

http://postmasculine.com/you-are-your-own-worst-enemy