How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

[Mark]

OK guys, let's go easy on Mace here. He's just trying to share what's worked for him.

Mace: I guarantee you if you took all the thought and energy you're putting into text/phone and put it into making your interactions better and presenting yourself better upon meeting them, then it wouldn't really matter what you texted them. I usually cut to the chase and set up the date when I meet them and then just use text to confirm it the next day. At the latest, I'll ask them out through text the next day.

Honestly, these days, I don't even own or carry a phone in half the countries I'm in and it hasn't really slowed me down. I either set up a date with them then and there, or I grab them on Facebook, chat with them for a few minutes the next day and then get them out that way. Either way, I only bother asking them out if it's clear they like me and want to see me, and when I do, I get them on a date ASAP, sometimes the that night (if I met them that day) or the next night. My flake rate is extremely low, and like I said, I don't even carry a phone with me half the time.