How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

[trader4life]

Funny, I had a number flake (did not return call/text) just this week that I thought was a more solid inital interaction than I have had in a long time. In fact, I would say it went so far as I would call it "perfect". Hell, she was the one suggesting we should hang out and get drinks some time before I could even get it out of my mouth. And no, it was not in an effort to "get rid of me"....or so I thought because I have gotten that vibe before too. haha. I was briefly upset, not because she flaked but because I perceived it as a slam dunk and was questioning my judgement, not the reason for her lack of interest/flaking. Regardless, dwelling on both is a waste of time. Point is, there are a ton of variables and what works for one of us, might not work well for another. I think that is what makes this great is figuring it out for yourself while trying to draw on the experiences of others - whether success or failures. In the end though every table has to stand on its own legs. But as we all know not letting the flakes get you down is the key IMO. You can re-play everything in your mind, but at the end of it all like Mark says "she's just not interested, find another girl."