How to Stop Flaking - My Method (Input Appreciated)

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I do day game at college campuses. My day game interactions last no more than 10 minutes. I get a number in about 1 in 3 approaches.

The biggest challenge in pickup is not getting the number - girls these days give out their numbers like candy. The problem is getting the girls out on a date. Often they won't come out. So how to combat flaky numbers?

The key is buidling comfort over text and phone.

Keep in mind that she's only actually spoken to you for only 10 minutes, you're still a "random stranger" to her. It takes a bit of time to establish enough rapport for the girl to be invested and comfortable enough to meet with you alone.

In my experience with college girls, it takes a good 2-3 days of steady text correspondence to get her comfortable enough to even answer the phone. You have to warm them up first. An impromptu phone call from a "random" is "creepy" to her and they won't answer your call.

I like the "text to call" strategy. Bait them with a teaser text like "i need your input on something, it's a long story". When she texts back, call her right away (she's now compelled to answer the call as she knows you know she has her phone in her hand). Now spend a good 10-15 minutes on the phone, show her that you're a cool, normal guy and not a serial killer, and ask her out. Younger girls today are seldom used to prolonged phone converations with guys, so if you can pull it off you're golden.

Moreover, at this point she knows your voice, you've moved from "random guy" to "normal interesting guy" and she feels comfortable enough to meet you alone.

You probably don't have to deal with this BS with girls 25+, but college girls are of the MSN/Facebook/BBM/texting/"I'm not good on the phone" generation.

So my method is:

Day 1 - get number, text her that night (callback to something initial conversation)
Day 2-3 - exchange texts through the day to build rapport/warm them up
Day 4 - "text to call" & phone call
Day 5/6//7 - meet

If you can't get a meet within a week of the number-close, it's a bust - at this point she's likely forgotten what you look like.

IMO this is the most effective strategy to combat flakes from quick number closes, and transition to meet and lay. This method has worked well for me and a buddy who also does day game.

Input appreciated.