Brian Wrote:Of course. But let's just say a girl who's good looking, educated, and successful financially. Why would she date an ugly dude who's educated and successful financially when she could just go find the one who is also good looking.
If a girl really gets along with a guy, and he's educated and financially successful, he just has to be "attractive enough." Women definitely have a threshold for looks. However, if you meet that, a woman is much more likely than a guy to just sort of say "good enough" when it comes to looks.
Also, even if a girl is outrageously hot, in terms of serious relationships, she knows that her odds of meeting somebody better goes down every year. If a girl meets a guy who she gets along with, who has shit going on, seems like a good partner, and is kinda meh in the looks department, she is not thinking "well, whatever, I can find a guy who is just like this but better looking" because maybe she CAN'T and she knows it. What she is probably going to think is "shit I should lock this guy down."
Also, Brian, this emphasizes the difference between you and me.
I think of killing approach anxiety as really hard and maintaining a good social circle as really easy.