Out-of-Nowhere Boyfriends

[baller08]

(03-28-2012 07:14 PM)youregettingitwrong Wrote:  Sometimes girl with boyfriends will talk to you just to be friendly and chat. But if she is in a happy relationship and thinks that you are going from friendly to flirty, typically she will bring up her boyfriend in casual conversation and definitely is you ask for her number, a girl in a relationship will either not give it to you, or will make sure to let you know she's attached.

So if none of this makes itself present during conversation and she gives you her number at your request, it could be that perhaps she didn't want to say no. Often times, girls and boys too, find it hard to tell a person right to their face that they are not interested. Girls are talkers, most of us love to chit chat and gossip. So you might be misreading friendliness for interest and then these girls give your their numbers because they feel bad saying no.

It is much easier to fake a bf over the phone or text then to straight up tell you they don't want to give you their number. This is most likely what is happening in majority of your cases because I strongly believe that majority of girls in strong relationships are not going to be caught up in the moment and forget their boyfriends long enough to flirt with you and give you their number.

I completely agree with this post. The whole thing.

The last part about "girls in a strong relationship are not going to forget about their boyfriends" is very important for guys to learn. If a girl does have a boyfriend and she's behaving like she is single, would you really want to date her? That type of character is not someone you would want to date because if you're in a relationship with her, how long before she's out flirting with other guys on you?

Think about it...in this situation you really only have 2 possible outcomes:

1) She really does have a boyfriend and using you for attention and flirting with you.

2) She really doesn't and is giving you an excuse.

Ask yourself....for you and your dating life....does it really make a difference? Is that girl worth pursuing in either case?