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You get the women who you think you deserve, not who you deserve
I've been thinking about this topic for a while. A while ago a good friend of me, who is very good with women said to me:" You know, it's not that your skill is not "high" enough for the really hot babes, it's just that you don't really think that you deserve them. You always get what you think you deserve, not what you deserve."
This made sense to me, because when I started with picking up women, my "Innergame" was not as good as it is now. I looked back and over the time not only my Innergame got better but also the chicks got hotter.
And today I was in this situation:
Me and my friend were dancing on the dancefloor and a really gorgous girl started to dance next to me. My friend started to talk to her but she wasn't interested, she just danced around me, gave me tons of IOIs (on one level I realised it, but because I was unconciously thinking that she was out of my league I just thought "yeah yeah, she's just dancing) and also told me that she loves my hair.
Then finally I started to talk to her (asked for a cigarette) and as my friend said she was totally into me, she told her friend to give me a cigarette and we went out smoking and so on.
At the end I got her number (she was there with her 3 friends and I thought it would be better to set up a date) and she was totally thrilled because I just said that I find her cute and I want to know her better, actually she was more thrilled than the average girls who I usually date.
So also now on one side I know that it's totally on but on the other side I still feel that she's out of my league and I think my friend has a point.
What do you guys think?
Greez (sorry if there are some grammar mistakes)
|01-18-2012 02:10 AM