Confronting and realizing my emotional needs in dating

[Leo]

@ Tim. It takes time to get to know a girl. I've been super infatuated with a girl, have sex with her, spent time with her, etc. For a moment I think she's the "one" UNTIL I really get to know her, her craziness, her issues, her flaws, etc. We all are flawed but some girls really need professional help. I dated a girl that was emotionally abused for her BF for 6 years, interacting with her was UNBEREABLE, she thought all the time I was emotionally abusing her and I wasn't, etc. I moved on, and I thought she was the "one". Another girl had problems with her body image, she thought she was ugly, never had an orgasm, etc. I couldn't stand it.
As Mark said, don't idealize her.
Thanks for being so honest and open up.
P.S.: Mi sister gave me a tip, she told me: Leo, remember that EVERYBODY has flaws, wait until you see her flaws.