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Attraction is a dance?
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Attraction is a dance?
Going off of my last post (http://postmasculine.com/forum/showthrea...little-bit) about figuring out how interested a girl is in you, I've since been infield and realized what mark and what others have said is true. Since then I think I've reached an epiphany. For some reason I always thought of pickup as a one way game where someone would just shoot off lines and hope for good feedback. But since I've realized it's more of a dance where both dancers work together to reach the final goal of getting together. If a girl is interested in you they'll definitely make it much easier than someone who shows no interest. And you know immediately if your partner is interested in getting with you based on her body language, flirting, picking up a convo after an awkward silence. This is why it is pointless trying to win someone over who shows no interest. This is also why people hit on a high volume of women, mainly to find a partner that will dance with them. Am I getting it or am I completely off base? sorry I'm a pretty slow learner with this Smile.

Grant me the serenity to accept that some women are uninterested,
Courage to change the ones that are neutral,
And wisdom to know the difference.
12-28-2011 02:22 AM
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