Do you only approach girls who give you IOIs?

[I_Dare]

If so, do you consider the popular Leil Lowndes book "Undercover sex signals" any good? If you have other sources please share.

I'd like to perfect noticing more subtle IOIs but in the same time I feel like getting good at this will limit me because sometimes women are very subtle.

My current mentality is that one should approach and see if a woman is receptive not wait for IOIs.

Someone said if a girl doesn't send you IOIs your chances are low, but I think sometimes women are just caught up in their head like most men... and there are tons of other reasons.

[Chaos]

No, I approach the girls I consider attractive. If I'm somewhere and I consider two girls equally attractive I will approach the one who's giving me IOIs... but I don't pay too much attention to them. Eye contact is the only one I do care about since is basically the only one difficult to mess up.

If I find two girls attractive I'll usually approach the one that seems to be more accessible, disregarding IOIs, thins like her smiling and stuff like that.

[Jon]

No that's totally silly. The IOI you should care about is how receptive she is to your behavior.

[baller08]

Do you only apply to jobs when someone you know inside gives a lead?

Do you only apply to colleges that recruit you?

In order to one day have jobs that are offered to you, there must have been a time in your life where you could go after jobs you want and get them.

Same with women. If you want to one day be universally attractive enough where women give you IOI's, then there must have been a time in your life that you had the courage to approach women you like and risk rejection, take rejection, learn from them, adjust, learn, and improve.

[David85]

You may get warmer responses but why limit your options?! You gotta play to win :-)

[Spikes]

(05-24-2012 04:50 PM)baller08 Wrote:  Do you only apply to jobs when someone you know inside gives a lead?

Do you only apply to colleges that recruit you?

In order to one day have jobs that are offered to you, there must have been a time in your life where you could go after jobs you want and get them.

Same with women. If you want to one day be universally attractive enough where women give you IOI's, then there must have been a time in your life that you had the courage to approach women you like and risk rejection, take rejection, learn from them, adjust, learn, and improve.

This whole analogy is perfect, it single handedly changed my perspective on approaching women.