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Girls and fucking dick-size - sledgehammer - 01-04-2012 03:12 AM
SO many girls seems to be SO OBSESSED with your dick-size? They very often take that shit up in conversation. "Big dick is important", "so u think ur big enough to handle me?" and all that shit.
At the same time theres a saying that "size doesnt matter", hu, then why the fuck are every damn hot chick obsessed with it?
Girls and fucking dick-size - CHB2 - 01-04-2012 03:23 AM
Most of my female friends have told me that long as it is not exceedingly small, as in so small it won't stimulate them, size really isn't that important. They also say that too big can be just as much of a problem as too small.
Why you troubled about it?
Girls and fucking dick-size - sledgehammer - 01-04-2012 03:26 AM
Is this some kind of "shit-test" to see how you react, or are they actually obsessed with big cocks?
Mine is pretty normal, about 6.5inches, maybe 7. Sure as hell looks small tho, in my opinion.
Girls and fucking dick-size - IdEngager - 01-04-2012 03:35 AM
sledgehammer Wrote:Is this some kind of "shit-test" to see how you react, or are they actually obsessed with big cocks?
Mine is pretty normal, about 6.5inches, maybe 7. Sure as hell looks small tho, in my opinion.
I believe your screenname is false advertisement.
Girls and fucking dick-size - bwong - 01-04-2012 03:45 AM
Tell them to get a tighter vagina
Girls and fucking dick-size - CHB2 - 01-04-2012 03:58 AM
@IdEngager hahaha
Seriously though, I don't know why you would stress about that. A lot of girls don't come from intercourse anyway (based on my experience, asking female friends, and what I have read), so just get good at oral and they won't be left unsatisfied.
If that doesn't work then follow bwong's advice...
Girls and fucking dick-size - Mark - 01-04-2012 04:15 AM
I don't think women obsess about it. I think men obsess about it. 99% of the time I hear women talking about, theyre just joking around or teasing someone playfully. But either way, if you're over six inches then you have nothing to worry about.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Mark - 01-04-2012 04:17 AM
sledgehammer Wrote:Mine is pretty normal, about 6.5inches, maybe 7. Sure as hell looks small tho, in my opinion.
Sounds to me like you're projecting your insecurities here. This is less about them and all about you.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Spikes - 01-04-2012 04:30 AM
I feel like its less about dick size and more about what you can do with what you have. Know why I mean
Girls and fucking dick-size - Matt T - 01-04-2012 05:37 AM
I don't think I've heard a female ever talk about dick size outside movies and the internet.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Trickster - 01-04-2012 06:52 AM
I know a lot of women, and the general consensus for them about penis size is "As long as it's not too small..." AND "As long as it's not too BIG..." Yes, you can be too big. Some women like big penises, but not nearly as much as you'd think. Most are more than happy to accept average, as long as you know what you're doing with it.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Mark - 01-04-2012 07:06 AM
I've heard quite a few women complain about penises that were way too big for them.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Brian - 01-04-2012 07:31 AM
Only virgin cares about penis size. I remember years ago when i was a virgin, i actually cares about penis size, until i had sex and realize pussies are tight, then my insecurities disappear.
The solution to your problem sledgehammer is sex.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Halo Effect - 01-04-2012 10:00 AM
sledgehammer Wrote:Is this some kind of "shit-test" to see how you react, or are they actually obsessed with big cocks?
Mine is pretty normal, about 6.5inches, maybe 7. Sure as hell looks small tho, in my opinion.
It looks small compared to the penises in porn. I know that feeling. You look at the video, then you look down, and you think: "Now that's not very impressive, is it?"
The thing is, I have shown porn to girls where the guy had a huge dick, thinking it might turn them on, the same way huge tits or asses can turn us on. The most common reaction is: OMG that looks so painful! I *definitely* don't want that!
And then there are girls who like the idea of a big penis, but in practice even a 7 inch penis can be painful to them, so it's nothing but a fantasy.
Size is important, in that the extremes (very tiny and extremely large) are not very desirable. I've heard some girls say that the guy just had next to nothing, and they didn't feel much. But we're talking way below average then. Also, if you can get very good in bed with fingering, licking, dirty talk, maybe even hypnosis, then you will give her the best sex she's had anyway.
Believing that a bigger than average penis (6.5 - 7 inches, edit: I'm referring to his post, average is much smaller) is too small is flat out wrong.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Mark - 01-04-2012 10:25 AM
Average is 5.5 inches I believe.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Kunio - 01-04-2012 01:12 PM
Only extreme whores with low self esteem would care that much about dick size. They want the novelty of many different kinds of penises because they don't have anything else going on in their lives. But, like Mark said, when most women talk about the "importance" of cock size, they're only messing around. So, just don't take them seriously, cause they're either not worth your time or not being serious.
Girls and fucking dick-size - crazyhorse - 01-04-2012 06:40 PM
Mark Wrote:I don't think women obsess about it. I think men obsess about it. 99% of the time I hear women talking about, theyre just joking around or teasing someone playfully. But either way, if you're over six inches then you have nothing to worry about.
I had to use google to convert "inches to cm" in order to know how much cm it was. Guess what the second item was that popped up? PENIS SIZE LOL
Mark Wrote:I've heard quite a few women complain about penises that were way too big for them.
Same here. Honestly I think too long is far more difficult for her. Djeezes you don't have to stick it in deep to hear her say "not so deep". I think a nice girth is far more important, since this provides more stretch.
I've also had quite some women compliment me on my dick, itt always feels good.
But in order to make sledgehammer even more INSECURE. I present to you "John Falcon", 5f9, fat, ugly but he has the biggest dick in the world and has had sex with at least 100 women. His dick has the grith of a fist :eek: . Anyway look him up.
For the porn guys K9 won't block him, haha.
http://www.google.be/imgres?q=john+falcon&um=1&hl=nl&safe=active&sa=N&biw=1366&bih=598&tbm=isch&tbnid=Hh-4w0bXSdmo0M:&imgrefurl=http://www.cabecadecuia.com/mundocao/2010-01-05/jonah-falcon-o-homem-com-o-maior-penis-do-mundo-esta-desempregado-62377.html&docid=fSAdfy68I5tseM&imgurl=http://www.cabecadecuia.com/imagem/materias/man987_9e3535bf798386bd0d6d64173630a2d1.jpg&w=450&h=491&ei=tpwET6XQEoSf-QbwtYm2AQ&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=885&vpy=242&dur=432&hovh=235&hovw=215&tx=93&ty=205&sig=108207395778539971273&page=2&tbnh=111&tbnw=113&start=24&ndsp=25&ved=1t:429,r:5,s:24
Girls and fucking dick-size - crazyhorse - 01-04-2012 06:41 PM
To be honest if you have an elephant dick like that, it's kinda cool to scare other guys away
Girls and fucking dick-size - Tim9000 - 01-05-2012 05:38 AM
Mark Wrote:... But either way, if you're over six inches then you have nothing to worry about.
It doesn't even take that. I'm just under 6" and have bottomed out a non-trivial percentage of the women I've banged (meaning that I've caused them pain and have had to switch positions or refrain from going as deep), and even with taller women with deep vaginal canals, they have been plenty satisfied. I think a man has to be *well* under average length/girth before he'll have trouble keeping a normal woman satisfied, and even in that case, there are shorter women walking around who are so tight/shallow that he'll have less of a problem (or no problem) keeping them happy.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Lyze - 01-05-2012 03:26 PM
I think it's a bonus to have a big dick. Just like being extremely handsome. That doesn't mean that it doesn't matter, if you are fat and look like shit it also matters. But if it's around 5.5-6 inches, everything is ok.
In my opinion it's just in your head that you need a big dick to satisfy a girl.
For instance:
Mine is 5.3 and I'm black, so I had always been scared because I thought that the girls would be disappointed (because I always get asked if black people really have such big dicks) or would laugh at me etc. So I've started to read several books about Sex, because my idea was that if I could satisfy her in the foreplay, then it wouldn't be as such as a big deal if my fucking performance would suck because of my "small" penis. Besides that I was right with my idea, I've made love to 20 women since then and I never had ANY problems, every one of them had their orgasms and it was awesome. (I also think that it's much more about technique and what's going on in her head but that's another topic)
So I have 5.3, none of the girls to who I made love was unsatisfied, so if you have problems, you rather just suck in bed than it's your penis size. And besides that, you can't change it anyway, so deal with it (as long as it's in the normal area) and work on your skills in bed.
Greez
Girls and fucking dick-size - Thenewguy - 01-06-2012 11:15 AM
Lyze Wrote:I think it's a bonus to have a big dick. Just like being extremely handsome. That doesn't mean that it doesn't matter, if you are fat and look like shit it also matters. But if it's around 5.5-6 inches, everything is ok.
In my opinion it's just in your head that you need a big dick to satisfy a girl.
For instance:
Mine is 5.3 and I'm black, so I had always been scared because I thought that the girls would be disappointed (because I always get asked if black people really have such big dicks) or would laugh at me etc. So I've started to read several books about Sex, because my idea was that if I could satisfy her in the foreplay, then it wouldn't be as such as a big deal if my fucking performance would suck because of my "small" penis. Besides that I was right with my idea, I've made love to 20 women since then and I never had ANY problems, every one of them had their orgasms and it was awesome. (I also think that it's much more about technique and what's going on in her head but that's another topic)
So I have 5.3, none of the girls to who I made love was unsatisfied, so if you have problems, you rather just suck in bed than it's your penis size. And besides that, you can't change it anyway, so deal with it (as long as it's in the normal area) and work on your skills in bed.
Greez
Could you recommend some of those books you've read please?
Here in my area, it seems that the average is 7 inches, based on a general consensus of what girls tell me at college. We even have discussions about how the average size socially is 5.5-6.5 but here is different. I go to a historically black college university (HBCU) if that means anything.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Halo Effect - 01-06-2012 03:04 PM
Thenewguy, read stuff by David Shade, and also Dan Rose.
And from the studies I've read, black men's penises are only a few millimeters bigger on average, not inches. Extremely unlikely that the average is so high. And even if it is, it still doesn't matter...
Girls and fucking dick-size - Mark - 01-06-2012 04:51 PM
My guess is the girls at your school are exaggerating. And I love how you post that the average penis size at your school is larger as if it matters or something. Get over it man.
[video=youtube;Nxwt--ZKLaM]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nxwt--ZKLaM[/video]
Girls and fucking dick-size - Thenewguy - 01-06-2012 08:13 PM
I wasn't. I was just making reference to how a different area and culture might perceive penis size. I don't see what bragging could do here...
And thanks for the advice, Halo.
Girls and fucking dick-size - Jon - 01-07-2012 12:01 AM
I found this article a little while back:
http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/we-love-your-bod/
Touches on dick size, makes a few good points.
1) since women can't usually orgasm from sex anyway, Dick size isn't that big a deal
2) generally too small can be a problem, but depends on the girl/position
3) Yes, big cocks are aesthetically pleasing, like big tits.