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The main "Problem" with inner-game - sledgehammer - 12-22-2011 10:50 PM
Really, I think in like 80% of the time, reading inner-game stuff like RSDs shit only messes up your inner game. Why? Because it gets you focusing ON YOUR SELF, you become self-consious cause u get so damn consious of your own feelings in any moment that you microanalyse how you feel like all the time.
The guys I see who are good with girls, some have "bad inner game" in like they have a shitty life and hate everything, some have "good" inner game as they are positive and over-confident etc. However, the main thing I see in EVERYONE who pulls chicks is that they are FOCUSED OUTWARDS. They almost never focus on themselves, never self consious, always direct their "energy" outwards.
Just some random thoughts right now in the evening, what your thoughts?
The main "Problem" with inner-game - Jon - 12-23-2011 10:59 PM
Yes and no. I agree a lot of guys are good because they are very outwardly focused. However there are a couple of guys I know who are very self-reflective and do well. However, in the moment, they do tend to be outwardly focused. I would compare it to method acting.
The main "Problem" with inner-game - Alvar - 12-29-2011 12:51 PM
The main problem with inner game is that often can be a giant excuse for not doing anything.
That's not inner game. It's "inner game".