Leo Wrote:He has a good question though, why your book is called Models? I don't get it.

sledgehammer Wrote:Seems to me like Aaron has submitted to the social conditioned brainwashing that its all about your looks height and money. Funny enough I know some tall good looking guys myself who have a very hard time hooking up with girls while their short average-looking friends seems to get all the attention in the bar.

Sleazy is absolutely overestamating the value height or looks is for a girl, a hot girl is so damn used to that shit its just "usual stuff".

Behaviour is way way way more important than having some supreme good looks as a guy, seems to me Aaron doesnt know what he is talking about, or he is just trying to be condesending, dont know which.

crazyhorse Wrote:His opinions are very black or white. But on the other hand if these tall, good looking men would be able to sort through their issues, they will always have it easier to get laid. That's just the way it is.

What I dislike about Aaron is that although he can give great advice, alot of times he's just soooo cynical. It really gets annoying to read.

statements such as height beat every category sound quite ridiculous to me (sort of like "looks don't matter"). Same with the Tom cruise example. Katie Holmes can just decide to go for a taller guy, after all she's also wealthy and famous. I'm 5f10 the last girl that approached me was at least 5f11. On average I'll probably hook up with a girl that's shorter then me, true, but there are always outliers. Second that with the fact that most women don't even get close to 5f10.I actually feel pretty safe.

While behavior is also important, your best investment is always going to be your looks. An ugly guy that is funny, is a funny guy. A good looking guy that is funny, is a great catch.

Mark Wrote:I've worked with way too many tall, good-looking clients who were total headcases to give much credit to height and looks. I've also hung out with too many short guys who absolutely killed it too... Give me a short, ugly guy who is non-needy, assertive, has an awesome personality and lifestyle, over a tall, good-looking guy who's horribly needy, insecure and awkward any day. The short ugly guy would mop the floor with him.

sledgehammer Wrote:An ugly guy who is funny might aswell be a sexy guy, based on his behaviour. Aswell as a good looking guy that is funny can be an entertainer monkey without sexual presence at all.

sledgehammer Wrote:Completely agree. Me myself is very muscular due to several years of weight training, Im good looking (Yes, in the classical sense as well developed jaw, eyebrows and good symmetry), I have dark eyes and dark hair, very easy to getting that sexy tan look. Yet Ive struggled like a mother fucker all my life cause of social insecurities and sexual anxiety, too many times when Ive "had it going" with a girl and ALMOST got it, some other douchebag short ugly asshole guy have stole her from me.

While I would say looks do make a difference, like any other shit like money or whatever, it aint even NEARLY as important as guys make it. Average looking dude who is very confident and assertive will KILL any good looking guy who is even half-insecure anyday.

Ive read a shit ton of seduction bullshit litterature but whats 100% legit in my experience is that girls are turned on primarly by DOMINANCE and all the shit that comes with it, being none needy, having your own shit going on, doing what you want when you want without looking for validation, having that "masculine presence". THATS whats turning women on, physical looks have a very minimal impact on the majority of chicks.

Funny thing is that the more experience I get, the more I start to realise this is true. Just some years ago I was absolutely convinced it was 100% looks and money, then after seduction I was like "well maybe its not everything but its very important!", now its like "nah, doesnt fucking matter, yeah sure you might have some advantage as a good looking guy but thats about it, nothing important".

Halo Effect Wrote:I'm 6'4" and I've been told by quite a few girls that I look good. I had no experience with girls at all until I was 20, and not much of a social life to speak of. Plenty of social anxiety. When I was 20 years old, I got my first kiss, under the influence of a lot of alcohol and a very assertive girl. The next kiss was more than a year later.
Now that I'm more out of my shell, less anxious and more comfortable with my sexuality, I get results easier, but it's still only if I put myself out there.

Overall I thought that Sleazy guy was positive about the book. He just keeps saying that it's all about looks and money, but if you ignore that, the rest is very positive.

Mark Wrote:Eh, honestly I don't care enough crazyhorse. The guy is obviously pretty set in his opinions, and the condescending tone is expected from another coach in the industry, especially one who is trying to make a name for himself. And from a business point of view, his blog gets such little traffic, it's not really worth my time.

Like I said, considering this is a guy who shits on everything the industry puts out, I'm fine with his take on my book. I learned years ago that you can't please everyone and that there are always going to be a lot of haters in this industry. It's easy to get caught up in meaningless drama (ie., Sinn's like 10-part video series bashing Neil Strauss). I stay focused on what I'm doing and trust that if I do good work people will find me.

Halo Effect Wrote:Overall I thought that Sleazy guy was positive about the book. He just keeps saying that it's all about looks and money, but if you ignore that, the rest is very positive.