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Girl breaks down into tears - Thor - 05-25-2012 10:35 PM
On the way back from the office walking down the high street. I see a lovely looking blonde peering through the shop window looking at some shoes. I walkup and got her attention by saying "excuse me".
She turned to me smiled and said "yes". I replied "your the kind of girl I totally go on a date with". She began giggling and said she was here in London to visit her boyfriend. I told her that it was cool she had a boyfriend and asked her where she was from. It turned out she was from Lithuania. Which was great because I was able to tell her about my trip to Lithuania and the amazing market they have one a year in the town of Vilinus.
After of a couple of minutes of chatting I invited her for a coffee at starbucks. We sat down and began chatting away about her family.
I told her about my relationship with my father and how we were much closer now then we use to be. I sensed sadness in her face so I asked her whether she was close to her father.
Her eyes filled with tears. She said her father had died 2 years ago. I told her I was sorry to hear that. I held her hand she squeezed my hand. It was wierd how in the space of 30 minutes or so we were sharing deep intimate things about her families and past lives.
From my community days I remember a post about someone saying never be a womans emotional tampon unless you want to be her friend.
I decided to ignore this rule and let her talk. She started telling me how she wished she could have been closer to her father. I pulled her up close and began smelling her hair. The smell of her hair was turning me on badly. I ran my lips along her necks she didnt resist she allowed me to rub my lips across her neck. Things began to get really cosy. I decided to lead her outside for walk so I took her hand and said to her "lets go for a walk".
As we walked down the road she asked me if I had a girlfriend. I told her I was single. Then all of a sudden her phone began to ring it turned out her boyfriend was calling her. Telling her to meet now.
In the end I wished her well and moved on. Didnt want to take things any further especially if she was already in a relationship.
RE: Girl breaks down into tears - Trickster - 05-25-2012 10:41 PM
Dude, this sounds like a beautiful interaction, even if she did have a boyfriend. You connected with her in a real way, and she's going to tell this story for years to come. I would've gotten her info anyways, because it sounds like she could've been a friend. Either way, that's pretty cool, man.
RE: Girl breaks down into tears - Traindom - 05-26-2012 12:41 AM
Awesome story, Thor! Super deep and vulnerable. I loved it!
RE: Girl breaks down into tears - Creatine Dreams - 05-26-2012 12:53 AM
Damn, Thor. I gotta say man, your posts are really inspiring to me.
You are one tough dude and I hope that one day, I make the progress that you have made.
I think what I like most is how this interaction did not come from a place of neediness.
You played the situation and related to her on a deep emotional level.
And when it was time for you to leave, you left.
Simply beautiful man.
RE: Girl breaks down into tears - FirstAidKit - 05-26-2012 10:46 AM
Fuck. I'm gonna call my dad now.